Many dogs love to play tug of war, but owners can often be a little hesitant, unsure if it’s safe. This is especially true with puppies over concerns that it can contribute towards developing aggressive behaviours.
There are many myths about tug of war, but the reality is that when it is played correctly, it is both safe and has the potential to improve your dog’s health and strengthen your bond together. Both the Blue Cross and Battersea recommend tug of war as a great way to play with your pup.
In this article, we'll debunk the common myths surrounding tug of war and explore its many benefits. We will also cover how to play the game safely and what to look for when choosing the right toy for your dog.
- Debunking tug of war myths
- The benefits of playing tug with your dog
- When to avoid playing tug of war
- How to play tug of war safely
- Choosing the right tug of war toys
Debunking tug of war myths
“Contrary to popular belief, tug of war is a great game to play with your dog, and can encourage trust and cooperative skills. And yes, it's ok to let your dog win!” – Victoria Stilwell, VS Dog Training Academy.
Myth: Tug of war makes dogs aggressive
This is the big concern. While dogs will often jump, growl and grab more than usual, this is because they are excited and playful, not signs they are being taught aggressive behaviours.
When played correctly, tug is a great way to train impulse control and can have a positive impact on improving obedience and following instructions. This is especially true for rescues, who may find tug of war a great way to quickly learn and bond with their new family.
Myth: You must always win to show dominance
An outdated approach to dog training that persists is the idea that dogs need to be taught they aren’t the pack leader and should not be allowed to assert dominance.
The reality is quite different. A strong relationship between you and your dog is about communication. Letting your dog win the game actually provides an opportunity for them to give the toy back to you and ask to play again.
Myth: Tug of war makes dogs possessive over toys
Dogs can be possessive over their toys for many reasons, including fear that they may be taken away permanently. Playing tug of war can help with training ‘leave’ and ‘drop’ commands, teaching young dogs that they can safely release their toys when instructed.
Myth: Playing tug of war affects ‘soft mouth’
Some trainers believe that tug of war encourages dogs to bite harder, especially with gundogs. But this is quite an outdated opinion that only applies to working dogs. For your pets, a controlled tug of war can be enjoyed safely, as dogs are smart enough to differentiate between playing a game and carrying something in their mouth.
The benefits of playing tug with your dog
If you've ever played, you will know why dogs love tug of war. It's a fantastic outlet for their natural instincts to grab and pull. Beyond pure fun, there are many other benefits.
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Physical and mental stimulation: Tug is a great way to burn off excess energy and provide mental enrichment.
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Strengthening your bond: Playing together builds trust and a positive relationship.
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Building confidence: Tug can be particularly beneficial for shy or anxious dogs.
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A high-value training reward: Tug can be used as a powerful motivator in training sessions.
When to avoid playing tug of war
Knowing your dog’s personality and instincts should always be key to decision-making, and in some cases, tug of war is not always the best choice of game:
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If your dog struggles to control their excitement. Tug of war can result in overstimulation in some dogs. Be aware of your dog’s body language and only play for short periods of time.
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If possessive aggression is an issue. While tug of war doesn’t create aggressive tendencies, if your dog already has these issues, it makes sense to avoid this type of play.
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Puppies and older dogs. Depending on their age, some dogs may be better suited to gentler play.
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Health issues. Tug can be physically strenuous, so avoid playing if your pup has dental problems or neck and back issues.
Children and tug of war
A safe tug of war session requires training and clear boundaries. For this reason, children should never play tug of war unsupervised and should only play with a dog that is already trained and well-disciplined.
Children are less able to read and react to their dog’s body language, which could see the play session become less controlled - a larger, excitable breed of dog is much more likely to accidentally injure a child than an adult if they jump up during a game.
How to play tug of war safely
Set boundaries
An important part of a safe game of tug is having control over when it starts and stops.
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Initiate the game on your terms. Your dog shouldn't demand a game by grabbing a toy and pushing it at you. You should be the one to decide when playtime begins.
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Use a designated toy. Make sure there is a designated toy for tug of war, and that it is put out of reach until it is time to play. This teaches your dog not to try and play games with inappropriate things like shoes or clothing.
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Define a clear end. When you decide the game is over, give your ‘drop’ command, and then put the toy away. This reinforces that you are in control and keeps games positive and controlled.
“Some timid dogs show a bit of hesitancy about pulling on an object when a person picks it up or has it in hand.” Says Karen B. London, certified Applied Animal Behaviourist and professional dog trainer. “To get such dogs fully on board with tug, it helps to signal to your dog that you want to play.”
Use a safe technique to prevent injury
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Pull from side-to-side. Always use a side-to-side motion rather than pulling up and down. Pulling upwards can strain your dog's neck and spine.
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Keep your dog's feet on the ground. Never drag your dog by the toy or lift it so high that their feet leave the ground. This can cause serious neck or back injuries.
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Avoid sharp movements. Avoid sudden jerks or yanking movements. The fun for your dog is in the resistance and the game itself, not in being violently pulled around.
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Match your dog's strength. Be mindful of your dog's size, age, and energy level. You should never pull harder than your dog is pulling. Let your dog set the intensity of the game.
How long should you play tug of war?
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Play in short bursts. Only let your dog pull for 10-20 seconds in each session.
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Watch for signs of fatigue. If your dog seems tired or their interest is waning, it's time to end the game. This ensures the activity remains fun and doesn't become a chore.
Use ‘drop’ commands
The 'drop' or 'let go' command is non-negotiable for a safe game of tug.
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Practice regularly. During your games, occasionally ask your dog to drop the toy. You should stop pulling and wait for them to let go.
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Reward them with more play. Only start playing again once they have listened. This teaches them that letting go of the toy on command doesn't mean the fun ends; in fact, it leads to more playtime.
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Never forcibly remove the toy. Avoid pulling the toy from their mouth. The goal is for them to release it willingly on your command.
Set a ‘no teeth’ rule
It is vital to teach your dog to be careful with their mouth during play.
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Stop the game immediately. An important rule to establish is that if your dog’s teeth touch your skin, the game stops immediately. Even if it's accidental, a quick "ouch!" and a brief time-out will send a clear message.
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Be consistent. Over time, this consistency will teach them to be more careful and aware when playing. This can help avoid accidental nips and injuries if they get overstimulated.
Choosing the best tug of war toys for dogs
Photo by Jose Rodriguez Ortega
When choosing a toy for a game of tug of war, safety and durability should be your top priorities. Choose a toy that is long enough to keep your hands a safe distance from your dog's mouth, preventing any accidental nips during an exciting game.
Materials like durable rubber or tightly braided fleece are good choices as they are strong but have enough ‘give’ to protect your dog's teeth and neck from injury.
It's a great idea to have a specific toy just for tug, which helps your dog understand what is appropriate to play with.
Pulling together with TopDog
So, is tug of war good for dogs? When you strip away the old myths, tug of war can be a great tool for building a happier, healthier relationship with your dog. As well as being a fantastic outlet for their natural instincts, it’s a brilliant way to build confidence and an incredible bonding activity.
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About the author
Terry Hearn
As the resident writer and harness expert for TopDog, Terry written extensively on a variety of topics close to every dog owner's heart, including a comprehensive dog owner's guide, the costs associated with dog ownership, the invaluable work of dog rescue charities, and crucial aspects of dog health, safety, and general wellbeing. Terry is passionate about providing the information dog owners need to ensure their beloved canine companions live their happiest, healthiest, and safest life.